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LucieLemonade | Hi everyone. Can you tell me a bit about a relationship with this combination? Venus conj Mars: Libra Mars conj Venus: Scorpio I'm curious what it might be like. Agressive or nice? Positive or negative? I know it could go either way. But it sounds nice and quite sexy to me. Your opinions welcome. |
GypseeWind | I have the venus (him) libra conjunct my mars in libra. I feel like ... finally I'm not at cross purposes with someone. We are moving in the same direction and we want the same things. I wish I knew about venus in libra earlier because it blows away every other venus I've known. |
LucieLemonade | Yes! The libra/libra sounds nice. And Scorpio/Scorpio sounds sexy. My concern would the combination of the libra and Scorpio together. I'm not sure those two always go well together. But I co be wrong. |
LucieLemonade | No more insight? Come on... spill he beans! What do you think? |
LeeLoo2014 | It can be extra sexy if the rest of the synastry supports it. if not, it could go either way, or be just a very passionate and intense fling. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner Connect for updates |
LucieLemonade | quote: Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: It can be extra sexy if the rest of the synastry supports it. if not, it could go either way, or be just a very passionate and intense fling.
Thank you. I was wondering though how these two signs/planets get along in this combination as I'm not sure Libra & Scorpio are particularly compatible. Yet we are talking about Venus & Mars. The male has the Scorpio Mars and has a 7 deg out of sign conj. M/V in 5th. The female is the Scorpio Venus too wide for a conj. M/V in 12th. It seems to me, that if it's going to go anywhere it's headed to the "fling zone" with very little potential for anything long term as they have no significant Saturn connections & in the composite they have Mars/Venus conj that has no other connections at all. Plus the M/V sits in her 12th & his 5th. I'm very curious about this M/V combo. How it they (the planets) would get along.
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LucieLemonade | You all totally don't love me anymore! I know my questions aren't always 100% clear.... but come on now. Don't be shy! I need your insight. and in exchange I will give you a and a virtual hug. ((hug))
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LeeLoo2014 | sweetie, that's an awesome combo! one has Venus in Libra, needs a Mars in Libra + a Mars in Scorpio, needs a Venus in Scorpio. In your own chart, you don't need to have Venus and Mars in so called "compatible" signs, whatever that means. In synastry, what you need for your Venus and Mars is the other's Venus and Mars compatible with your chart. Same sign in conjunction is emblematic, an energy everyone should experience once in their life. What you need to your Venus, in synastry, is a geometrically compatible aspect, this is what I believe. If your Venus receives only hard aspects, you need a Mars in hard aspect; is she's a softie, she will only like soft aspect Marses So look what kind of Venus/Mars you have and see if these two conjunctions are the best, when it comes to long-term. If not, these conjunctions will be very hot for a crush/fling/passion. |
LucieLemonade | Thanks so much for your feedback! I was sort of heading in that direction in my thinking. That the male/female, M/V, S/L balance would be a good thing. And yes... This is about me. He's all Scorpio/Sag/Libra/Gem & I'm all Sag/Scorpio/Libra. We get along really well. He was (is?) my best friend... But since I broke up with my Aqua it's started to get hot in here... So it all sounds great right? Seeing as his Mars/Venus conj is in my 12th.... One guess what the problem is. Sigh.
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Aries23Degrees | The Venus/Mars conjunct can make up for some massive difficulties in synastry. It is really a very helpful aspect to have when you are dealing with challenging squares and oppositions. Venus/Mars conjunct Libra is a meeting of minds. These two will love playing mental tennis with each other. They will also "compete" to see who can charm the pants off the other (literally) And believe you me, it's a very close call. Venus-Mars in Scorpio is a meeting of souls. These two will love exploring more deeply into each other- sometimes without even saying a word. The long silences and stares that the two give each other. Communicating in very subtle ways that are unnerving for others. What is usual y happening here is that there is a "battle" to see who is going to be "on top". Both love intimacy; whetehr sexual or conversational. Nothing is off bounds when the two meet. Another very close call!!. I once met someone who had Venus in Libra conjunct my Mars in Libra. His Mars in Scorpio conjunct my Venus in Scorpio. We couldn't speak or be around to each other at all. And this was not because we "hated" each other. The attraction was just too overwhelming. And neither one of us was ready!
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LucieLemonade | We only have one planet square that is under 6 deg. Jupiter square Uranus (3). The others are over 6.5 except Sun sq NN and chiron sq Jupiter both at 2.5. We fell into a very easy friendship. It wasn't an attraction right away at all. But once I broke up with my Aqua and moved to a place 10 mins from his house, we've been spending more and more time together and "boom" it just happened. I had to fight not to lean over and kiss him. Then he confessed his crush and he kissed me. That kiss pretty much changed everything. Listen kids: DON'T go kissing people! It can be dangerous. lol We've already decided to stop seeing each other twice(!) and we were both miserable. I do enjoy talking to him. But I also enjoy sitting in silence with him, (we sit in silence on the phone sometimes), which is very weird for me as I'm a non-stop talker. The lack of Saturn (and, um, other stuff) makes me think that we should walk away before we get in too far. It just feels really very nice and easy though, especially after all the drama of the Aqua Sun/Leo moon. PS, Yes. LeeLoo. I know. You did warn me about the Aqua and I didn't listen. |
LexusVirgo | I have it with Some one in Leo, he has Venus Mars in leo and I have Venus Mars in Leo. He acts like he feels nothing. I'm dying of lust so much it's so bad that like when he was showing me something on a price of paper I just kept looking at his fingers and thinking about how long and skilled they must be. Good god he lights my fire. I don't think he feels the same tho. |
next to neptune | I have a virgo mars 27 degrees conjunct my boyfriends libra venus 1 degree... don't know if it would count? I also have a scorpio venus, but my boyfriend got a gemini mars, so his venus/mars signs are not really compatible with mine at all. We do have an amazing time together, we have amazing sex (!!) and we are very physically affectionate towards eachother. Our only problem is I see it, is that our communication towards the relationship has not always been the greatest. We can talk together yes, but on this deep level, no. Libra venus is much more light headed and doesn't want to take things too seriously. Scorpio venus is the opposite, we want to take the relationship very very serious. Also - the gemini mars just wants to have fun, and not sit and talk about deep stuff. They are quick-witted and want's a partner who is fun. Virgo mars is a little bit this way, but they also just enjoy talking in general, and have this mental ping-pong going on (but not exactly in the same way as gemini) So it's a lot of work when you don't have compatible mars/venus signs, but the biggest problem for me is the libra venus and scorpio venus - these signs are just not made for each other at all
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LucieLemonade | Thank you all for your feedback. I love reading your thoughts. @Aries23Degress: "The Venus/Mars conjunct can make up for some massive difficulties in synastry." Do you think it can make up for lack of Saturn? Can anything make up for lack of Saturn? I personally have my doubts. But I have to admit my understanding is still limited. @next to neptune: Do you really think your lack of communication is about Venus/Mars? What are your Mercs doing? Your 3H? We communicate quite well which is basically how this all came about really. We talk about everything, heavy and light stuff. As I said, he was a friend first and we confided in each other things that were going on in our lives. We have good Merc aspects. His is in my 1st and mine is in his 7th. His moon is in his first so I can pretty much read what he feeling and he has the need to express it. But we all know things evolve. |
Nine | quote: I once met someone who had Venus in Libra conjunct my Mars in Libra. His Mars in Scorpio conjunct my Venus in Scorpio.We couldn't speak or be around to each other at all. And this was not because we "hated" each other.
This was my experience. Our double conjunction was in pSynastry; their nVenus conj my pMars, & my pVenus conj their nMars in Cancer & Gemini. We pretty much crashed and burned within a week with no hope of return. This is a very sexual combination. If sex is not involved, a relationship between these two people will be short lived, or very unhappy, acrimonious and combative. |
LucieLemonade | quote: Originally posted by Nine: This was my experience. Our double conjunction was in pSynastry; their nVenus conj my pMars, & my pVenus conj their nMars in Cancer & Gemini. We pretty much crashed and burned within a week with no hope of return. This is a very sexual combination. If sex is not involved, a relationship between these two people will be short lived, or very unhappy, acrimonious and combative.
I did read that this could easily lead to serious hate. I'm not sure this will end acrimoniously (hope springs eternal. ) It does however look like it will be very short lived. I'm already tired of it. That is probably more my state of mind these days than the friendship per se. I'm exhausted of giving to men who have been wounded by their partners, while getting very little in return. I usually don't mind giving. I give because I want to, not because I have expectations of returns. Though, at this point, I think I'm done... for now. I can't be the catalyst for everyone's life changes. Only just recently have I come through my own upheaval. Unless someone has their life more or less in order, they shouldn't come near me! LOL. Not in the mood I'm in! |